Posts tagged Willingness
10 Of My Own Quotable Quotes – Part 70
Dec 22nd
1. No negative force can withstand the tip of a sharp pen driven or controlled by a focused mind. Wisdom will not diminish when the inspired keep recording their inspiration for posterity. Wisdom contained in one vessel has limited chances to impact humanity. Wisdom shared is vital for human growth and inspiration.
2. Everything we will ever desire for life on this earth is in God. God lives outside our definition of property ownership. He lives outside time as we know it. If you are willing and obedient to what he desires of you, you will eat of the good of the land, guaranteed. God will step into your zone. Will you ready when He does?
3. When we use God given resources for show off then we are compromising the purpose of wealth. It is God who gives you the power to make wealth. He however puts an expectation for stewardship not misappropriation. Be careful when you get blessed that it does not come to sorrow due to misuse. Ask for Ananias and Saphira for lessons on accounting for blessings
4. The fact that you are out of a situation physically does not necessarily mean the situation is out of you. If you have experienced extreme poverty, you may still behave as if you have nothing even after upgrading your financial status. Its in the mind. It takes determination and willingness to fore-go this mindset.
5. No one ever makes mistakes deliberately. You may see an error prone person but they are possibly at their optimum best. Never use your own thoughts as benchmarks for others. You can short change them.
6. He who gives advice has to be careful to obey what he proclaims or suggests. Life is a culmination of seasons. You may be giving judgment today only to be the accused tomorrow. Be conscious of the reason behind every season. You reaction to the season will determine how far you will go in life.
7. The strength of any family is in the things they choose to do together. There is no place for individuality and isolation. A family that prays and plays together is a healthy family. More-so, a family must be the safest place where the deeper issues of life are discussed without anyone feeling the brunt of judgmentalism.
8. It is easy to see problems and shortcomings in another person than the ones you carry. The reason why you are almost a specialist at judging others is largely because there is abundance of the same shortcomings in you.
9. Leaders are in the business of creating winners in those they lead. Leaders who view followers as competition will never think of hiring people who are sharper and more articulate. Furthermore they cease to develop themselves beyond where they are. Stagnation is a detriment to a leader’s greatness.
10. Your mind, will power and your emotions are constantly driving your body to act on things that will either grow you or destroy you. It is however unfortunate that by the time you discover it, the deterioration would have gone to irreversible levels.
5 Ways to Instantly Add More Self-Value
Oct 5th
Increasing your self-confidence doesn’t have to be so hard. Increasing your self-confidence, so you can achieve really amazing results in your life, comes from a place where you have the willingness to do so. It comes from a place of willingness to see your inner value. It is time to let go of the distorted image you have of yourself, and free your authentic self.
Knowing your self-value comes from within and not from what the outside world has determined. She looks within rather than placing blame on anyone or anything. She takes a ‘no excuses’ approach to creating the life she wants and invests in herself without guilt.
Becoming a confident woman will make you feel happier, more secure and extra attractive. You will start to attract anything you desire in your life with ease.
When you feel confident and really great in your own skin, you will soon find everything begins to flow easily and effortlessly into your life.
1. Be 100% Honest with Yourself. YES! No more denial. It’s really easy to delude yourself, isn’t?
You will save yourself a lot time, pain and money be being 100% honest with yourself. When you’re honest with yourself all you do is gain more – happiness and freedom. You’ll find the answer to those burning questions. Everything you need to know is inside you and the way you access these answers is through your truth.
Get quiet and ask yourself the questions. Trust your intuition and your answer will appear…Your answers are in you already.
Ask your higher self, “Am I being real with myself?” “Does this bother me or not?” “Is this action hurting or helping me?”?
2. Accept Full Responsibility for YOUR Life. This is one of the greatest ways to demonstrate honor and value to yourself and the universe.
One of the best ways I know how to feel empowered is to accept full responsibility for your life.
If you don’t like the results in your life, don’t waste your precious energy blaming others. Add more value to your life instead and take full responsibility. When you do this, you get connected to good, clean energy that is essential for taking actions to make lasting change.
This is your life. Take responsibility for it. You attract to you what you put out to the world through your level of self-value. Action or inaction comes from the level of self-value you hold for yourself. You will find that when you take responsibility for your life, doors will open and you’ll be able to live out the dream of YOUR life.
In accepting responsibility, you show up for your life in a completely different way and reflect the value you hold on the inside to the outside world.
3. Don’t Take Things Personal. If this is a hard one for you, please read or re-read The Four Agreements, Chapter #3.
The reason you’re taking what someone said as personal is, at some level, you are agreeing with and it’s not even true! This is why it bothers you so much. LET IT GO!
Taking things personally is poison; it will keep you stuck, wasting time worrying and analyzing.
Please do yourself a favor, stop eating others emotional garbage. Commit to not taking things personally. You are setting yourself up to suffer and it is robbing you of your self-confidence.
4. Be Clear and Confident. Who are you? And, what is your authentic image?
Write down five qualities you like about yourself. Then write down one quality you want to improve. In doing so, you’ll gain the clarity you need to build more confidence.
When you truly KNOW yourself, you’ll find yourself speaking more clearly, knowing exactly what you want and you will go after it by doing it. Once you get clear on who you are and really liking yourself, you’ll find confidence follows. You become unstoppable!
5. Stop the “I’m Not Good Enough!” ‘Nuff Said! STOP IT! Comparing yourself to others? Obsessing about flaws that only you see? Right? You know what I mean here
Stop analyzing your inside to everybody outside – dangerous. Get off the scale, off Facebook, turn the TV off, and get into your life. Don’t call your girlfriend and ask her “what is wrong with me?” Nothing! This is only fueling the false beliefs you are holding and will keep you stuck.
Instead, if you are not feeling good enough, take ACTION. Do something that fills your soul up and brings worth to your life – HONOR yourself. Go for walk, read a book, take a bath. Then call your girlfriend and meet her fun lunch to celebrate life with her instead of calling her in self-doubt.
Start to feel good and begin to treat yourself like you are more than enough and do this starting NOW! Invest in you! Wake up early to journal, meditate, take care of your body by exercising, having a mental vision for your life and fuel your spirit by doing things YOU love to do. Nourish your body and soul with people and things that only support love.
Soon enough you’ll feel whole in body, mind and soul and will finally feel good enough for yourself and others.
