Posts tagged Sense Of Humor
Universal Energy – Align With It – Eleven Tips
Dec 29th
When your intentions are aligned with the Universe’s energy, rather than, a mere personal caprice or doing something on a whim, then you are working with the current of becoming. The expression, ‘Go with the flow,’ is the message from the Universal energies that prevail.
Allow yourself to become who you truly are, without forcing the current. You only need to understand that you are part of the magnificent whole, eternal, infinite and good. When you understand this, your life expands in a growing exponential expression of that good. ‘Flow with whatever is transpiring and let your mind be free. Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate.’ – Chuang Tzu
Align with the Universe’s energy:
- Remember: You influence things. Controlling anything is an illusion.
- Become aware: Notice your thoughts, feelings, behavior (actions) second by second. What are your thoughts, feelings, behavior (action) creating?
- Breathe: A deep breath allows you to remain calm and do what you need to do in the moment.
- Maintain Perspective: Take a step back from a frustrating situation. A week, month, or year from now this incident will matter little. Few will remember the incident, but, everyone, including you, will remember, if there was a huge drama about it. This too shall pass. Let it go.
- Step by Step: Taking the first step is the most difficult. Notice how a child learns to walk – one step and then another and another. Just take the first step.
- Practice – Practice – Practice: No one became proficient at anything without practice. Become a commensurate learner and you will move your results more quickly.
- Maintain a Sense of Humor: Laughter has been proven to be the best medicine. Laugh at yourself, even during a big struggle. Life contains many ironies, paradoxes and absurdities – learn to see the funny side of everything, albeit sometimes laughing out loud would be inappropriate for those who are involved.
- Keep a record of your ‘To Do’ items and progress: Go over your day. Examine: What worked, and if not, what needs to be changed? Recollection and examination will help you learn how to be more effective.
- Avoid Frustration build-up – take a break: De-stressing is important to maintain your focus. Take deep breaths. Detach and be an observer. Relaxation will improve your learning process.
- Control of others: Accept that people have habits and behaviors that are different from yours to avoid being frustrated. Influence and negotiation will assist you in creating the best outcome. “Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” – Lao-Tzu
- Accept imperfection and change: Change is a fact of life. Accept that everything is constantly in a state of change, and you are part of that change. Instead of seeking perfection; accept what is ‘good enough.’ Life is a flow of change, chaos and beauty: Life is constantly in flux and change. Beauty is abundant even in the midst of messiness, chaos, pain, sadness and fear. The Universe is perfect to the nth degree to create the learning experience you need. ‘Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.’ – Lao-Tzu
Experiment with these suggestions. Have fun and let yourself go with the Universe’s energy flow.
Find How Wonderful You Are
Oct 10th
Compliment yourselves, believe in yourselves, and give yourselves credit.
You are wonderful people; each and every one of you has many talents. You have achieved much in your lives. You are dear people. All you have to do is acknowledge it, believe in it and cultivate it. I once heard a dear person say – “The perfect person for being myself – is me”. ?And so, the most perfect person for being you – is you”. It is a wonderful sentence. Please remember it and give yourself credit for the wonderful person you are. Believe in yourself and in what you are able to do. Believe in your ability to love and be happy. Believe in your inner light and that you can create so much. Even the sky is not the limit. Believe in the multitude of possibilities for you. Believe that you can believe!
Give yourselves a kind word. Stand in front of the mirror and say a kind word to yourselves. Give yourselves credit for things you are successful in, for things you have accomplished, for gifts you have given to the world, for your good qualities, for the beauty within you. Thank yourself for the beautiful plant that you have placed in your house, for the good cake you baked, or for the beautiful picture you hung on the wall. Let yourselves enjoy who you are.
Two exercises that will assist you
First exercise – complimenting one’s self
Make a list of things you love about yourself. For example: “I am smart”, “I am kind”, “I have a great sense of humor”, “I have pretty eyes”, “I am very friendly and I make people feel good about themselves”.
Make this list and within it you will find yourselves. You will find out how lovable you are. You will find out your useful and good qualities.
First you might need to strain your brain a little but the rest will soon to follow. ?
You are wonderful people. Much love to you…
Here is an example of the one of my attribute lists:
Complimenting Myself:
I am filled with love and give love to the universe
I am kind and helpful
I am friendly
I am beautiful
I am filled with happiness and optimism and I share it with my surroundings all the time
I am aware of my ability to create in my life
I am able to solve any dilemma
I eat healthy and take care of my body
I am intelligent
Second exercise -Accomplishments
Make a list of all the things you have accomplished in your daily life, things you feel you have been successful in. Note these things and add a few of the sentiments you that have felt while achieving them. Describe them in detail. Experience once more those good sentiments through the writing. Later you will be able to relive the event and sentiments while reading them once more. You can also add more small achievements every time you recall them. Soon enough more and more insights will come to you as you realize that the act of adding achievements is the greatest success.
Here is a list of my achievements in the recent past:
My Achievements:
One of my paintings was hung in my parents’ dining room. The painting is pretty and expresses joy.
I made wonderful breakfast for my friends and they all enjoyed it.
I finished my Bachelors and Masters Degree
I help people find the good and beautiful within them
I helped a friend buy a shirt that looks good on him
I attended a good workshop on attracting abundance and it helped me attract the things I wanted in my life
I was successful in managing a project at work
Now read what you wrote and see how wonderful you are.

