Posts tagged Pleasure
Feelings – Your True Self
Nov 25th
An aura of poignancy can suffuse the entirety of your experiences, prompting you to allow your emotions to come forth without reservations. Thus, you will move through your day with your heart open to be seen by everyone you interact with.
Although, you give consideration to the feelings appropriate to each area of your existence, you may nonetheless feel comfortable articulating and making use of your newly heightened sensitivity. Looking toward the nature of your feelings for guidance, you will likely take great pleasure in the wide variety of emotions you experience. Your heartfelt appreciation of feelings in general can help you see the value in sentimentality.
When you integrate your emotions into every aspect of your experience, freely feeling and expressing them, you become more sensitive and adept at understanding the impact the universe has upon you.
Repressed feelings add little value to your life as you only come to understand the nature of your reactions by allowing them to manifest in the forefront of your consciousness. Although, some emotions may bring little joy and some may cause pain, all emotions are imbued with the power to teach you about the elements of your immediate environment that you need to actively work to change. The resulting knowledge empowers you to create life balance and whole-being satisfaction.
As you allow yourself to wholly experience your emotions, you will come to understand that all feelings are an integral part of your existence – the driving force of who you truly are.
The Reason Why People Fail In Life
Oct 25th
Failure is a powerful foe that should not be accommodated by any person. It destroys once allowed to penetrate one’s life. Its symptoms are poverty, lack of ambition, inferiority complex, and depression and so on.
Failure can be experienced by both adults and children. No one is too young or too old to encounter failure. Sometimes children fail to measure up to the expectations of the parents, teachers or friends. Failure can kindle depression even in children if not checked.
Feelings of failure come when you have low grades in school, when you are rejected or condemned by loved ones, or when a particular goal could not be achieved and so on. When these happen, changes are noticed. You can’t find pleasure in the activities you once enjoyed. You feel your life has nothing important to contribute and is totally meaningless. You may often cry and sometimes you feel you were never born and you would rather well off dead. You read without understanding, you loose appetite, over eat or even running off some bottles, poor or excessive sleep, nightmare and ill health may be some of the results. All these are manifestations of chronic depression which may lead to serious mental disorder if not checked.
Why people fail…
A lot of people fail in life because they refused to accept the fact that failure is part of life. Failure is to strengthen and not to destroy. Accept the fact that disappointments are meant to come in one’s life and when it comes, just say I will get it over. Most people refused to share their problems even to their loved and trusted ones which may have the ability to counsel them on how to go about it, not knowing that problem shared, is half solved. Keeping it to you, is like a heavy load on the camel’s back.
If you have strong determination to succeed in life, failure will have no effect on you. “Falling does not mean you are a failure, rather you have not yet succeeded” failure should pose new challenges to you. Put in more effort for a better outcome; don’t accept to remain where you failed.
Failure sometimes makes you appreciate success when it eventually comes.
Any way out…
When failure comes, analyze the situation.
Examine the cause of failure and how discovered lapses could be corrected. I tell you life can become boring when you don’t have problems. You must learn how to cope with failure because they are bound to come. Most good things don’t come easy. Don’t bring everything to halt in your life simply because you have fallen in an area.
Many successful people today attributed their success to hard work, endurance, determination and strong will to succeed. All these keep you going in spite of all hurdles. Don’t get destabilized or distracted by unfortunate circumstances. Prove yourself fit for challenges, therein lies your pride and strength. It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to achieve a goal, what matters are how well you achieve a goal. You are meant to soar like an eagle, so failure should not be the end of the road. See you at the top.
