Posts tagged Negative Messages
Stop The Fear Of Rejection From Destroying Your Relationships
Sep 28th
Do you know that the fear of rejection, like the proverbial statement, leads to a self fulfilling prophecy of rejection each and every time? Do you know if you have been programmed with this fear your life will be full of repeated disappointments, heart break, episodes of rejection/abandonment, and that you will inevitably wind up alone, feeling depressed and like there is something wrong with you? Finally, do you know that it is now possible to extricate yourself from this sad trajectory and into one that is fulfilling and full of healthy, stable and loving relationships? How does one do that you ask?
Well, to achieve this one must erase/delete/eradicate that negative fear from their mind/body/energy field once and for all!
That fear gets programmed into individuals whenever they experience, early in their life, an episode of rejection and/or abandonment that then becomes stored within them as a negative memory. That memory resides within their subconscious mind and constantly generates negative thoughts about them that float up into the conscious mind hijacking and hypnotizing it into believing that the individual is unattractive, unwanted, unlovable, unworthy, inadequate, undesirable and so on.
So when such an individual attempts to form relationships they are confronted with these subliminal negative messages and are led to feel and appear insecure, less than confident, inhibited, self conscious, needy, and so on. All of this is perceived by others as unattractive with the net result that the individual is excluded, marginalized, rejected and so on. The self fulfilling prophecy strikes!
Sadly the programming is so entrenched that few ever find a way to elude its grasp. The only way to do so is to make it fully conscious and to permanently erase/delete it from within. There is now a powerful new coaching process that can help one erase the negative programming responsible for this and other fears, negative thoughts, negative memories and so on.
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Silence Negative Self Talk Forever
Aug 26th
Do you know that most people walk around with a chorus of negative voices sounding off in the back of their minds causing a great deal of confusion, distraction, loss of resolve, self doubt, lack of focus and concentration, indecisiveness, loss of energy and enthusiasm, reduced confidence and paralysis to name a few? Do you know that negative “self talk” is actually not coming from the “self” (i.e. from you) at all? Do you know that it comes from unwelcome intruders that have hijacked your mind and are also trying to take control of your life? Does this sound shocking or hard to believe? Do you know that “your” skepticism is actually “not” yours but is a self protective device these intruders employ to get you from ever questioning their presence inside of you? Finally do you know there is a way to completely silence those unwelcome intruders for good? How does one do that you ask?
Those negative voices originate from a constantly playing audio tape that emerges from negative memories of past experiences stored in the subconscious mind. Many have referred to this as early conditioning and it corresponds to all of the negative messages one has received and recorded within. Many of these messages get triggered whenever an event in one’s current life in any way resembles the old past event(s).
So, for instance, if one experienced a failure of sorts in one’s past that was painful the internalized voice will be programmed to convey a message of fear whenever taking such risks again. Now some might “think” this to be a good thing but if one looks at the consequences of this they will readily experience a sense of limitation that blocks the flow of their creativity, self expression, spontaneity, and chances of achieving a fulfilling and expansive life.
Now since many of those voices reside outside of one’s conscious awareness they therefore remain outside of one’s control. That means they can erupt at any time without notice or invitation only to disrupt one’s clarity and peace of mind. As I’m sure you can see this is highly undesirable. The only way to take control of these inner voices is to banish them from with in for good.
In order to do that they and their negative memory roots must be brought to consciousness and permanently erased much like one erases outdated computer programs from one’s hard drive. There is now a new powerful coaching process that does just that.
So if your interest has been peaked and you have been searching for a way to take your mind back then you may wish to visit the web site below where you can learn more about this process, request a free e-copy of my book or request a free introductory telephone consultation that will begin to give you an experience of what it feels like to be the master of your mind.
