Posts tagged Indecisiveness
Simple Steps to Increase Self Confidence
Oct 9th
Self-confidence is a feeling of immense confidence within one’s inner self. It is basically an emotion of feeling that no force on the face of the earth can stop one from succeeding in every realm of life.
One’s perception about himself or herself is extremely essential for others to form an opinion about the concerned person. The higher the self-confidence, the higher is the level of success one can achieve.
An important way of restoring self-confidence is to talk about problems and grievances with family and close friends so that they provide the desired support, thereby boosting the confidence.
One needs to remember the simple fact that no one on this planet is perfect and life is not going to be a bed of roses. It is often necessary to derive confidence from previous phases of success and determine what exactly has gone wrong in the present. A persistent feeling of positivity is also mandatory for keeping self-confidence at a high level.
Lack of self-confidence can be a serious threat to one’s success because one will lose the positive energy that he can make it big in life. It can lead to indecisiveness and thereby wrong decisions in life too, both pertaining to personal and professional phases of life.
People who do not maintain physical fitness often lose a lot of self-confidence when they see themselves in a miserable physical shape in the mirror.
People who do not smile do not attract acknowledgment from people around too, leading to loss of self-confidence.
People who tender to ponder on the failures of life rather than focusing on the achievements also lose the will-power and gradually the self-confidence over a period of time.
Self-confidence is often closely associated with patience. It happens often that even after loads of hard work, one does not achieve success, which may, in turn, lead to immense frustration. At this juncture, one needs to sustain the level of self-confidence that it is just a matter of time that he or she will achieve success.
Silence Negative Self Talk Forever
Aug 26th
Do you know that most people walk around with a chorus of negative voices sounding off in the back of their minds causing a great deal of confusion, distraction, loss of resolve, self doubt, lack of focus and concentration, indecisiveness, loss of energy and enthusiasm, reduced confidence and paralysis to name a few? Do you know that negative “self talk” is actually not coming from the “self” (i.e. from you) at all? Do you know that it comes from unwelcome intruders that have hijacked your mind and are also trying to take control of your life? Does this sound shocking or hard to believe? Do you know that “your” skepticism is actually “not” yours but is a self protective device these intruders employ to get you from ever questioning their presence inside of you? Finally do you know there is a way to completely silence those unwelcome intruders for good? How does one do that you ask?
Those negative voices originate from a constantly playing audio tape that emerges from negative memories of past experiences stored in the subconscious mind. Many have referred to this as early conditioning and it corresponds to all of the negative messages one has received and recorded within. Many of these messages get triggered whenever an event in one’s current life in any way resembles the old past event(s).
So, for instance, if one experienced a failure of sorts in one’s past that was painful the internalized voice will be programmed to convey a message of fear whenever taking such risks again. Now some might “think” this to be a good thing but if one looks at the consequences of this they will readily experience a sense of limitation that blocks the flow of their creativity, self expression, spontaneity, and chances of achieving a fulfilling and expansive life.
Now since many of those voices reside outside of one’s conscious awareness they therefore remain outside of one’s control. That means they can erupt at any time without notice or invitation only to disrupt one’s clarity and peace of mind. As I’m sure you can see this is highly undesirable. The only way to take control of these inner voices is to banish them from with in for good.
In order to do that they and their negative memory roots must be brought to consciousness and permanently erased much like one erases outdated computer programs from one’s hard drive. There is now a new powerful coaching process that does just that.
So if your interest has been peaked and you have been searching for a way to take your mind back then you may wish to visit the web site below where you can learn more about this process, request a free e-copy of my book or request a free introductory telephone consultation that will begin to give you an experience of what it feels like to be the master of your mind.
