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Building Confidence And Self Esteem
Oct 15th
To lead successful and happy life, self-confidence is one of the key elements. It will improve your social interaction and chances in climbing the stepladder of success and also will be a useful dosage of self-confidence and improves your business interactions.
People who have confidence are attractive and gorgeous because it peaks other people’s interest in them. If you think that you are not worthy of being noted or befriended, then others would assume there is a good reason for this and they avoid you or not give you a second thought. It is very essential for your personality that others should know you better than yourself; this only can happen by yourself.
It is the middle ground between low self-confidence and overconfidence. A person who has self confidence will do what he believes in even with opposition, wills take risks and cross the extra miles, admitting mistakes and learning from them, and accept compliments graciously-realizing that what he did was excellent, and not downplaying his role in the matter. But on the other hand, a person with low self-confidence will pattern his thoughts and actions to those around him, stays safe in his comfort zone or commend upon his virtues without waiting to be recognized in an attempt to remind himself of his importance. Further, an overconfident person will over-reach and exceed his limits, often falling short of his goal, and enthusiastically linger on his role in a successful situation.
To balance these three situations can be difficult, but the rewards are very satisfactory.
Comparatively, self confidence is often a more important asset than skill, knowledge, or even experience. It seems like a piece of a puzzle needed to make the entire puzzle complete. Let us take a closer look. We imagine that you have the skill, knowledge, and experience to qualify for a certain job. But when you go for the job interview, what will happen if you are not able to give answers that you know very well. It is the scarcity of confidence.
Build Self Confidence – 3 Undermining Factors to Look Out For
Oct 1st
There are numerous amounts of resources on how to build self confidence and develop self esteem. But, very few people talk about what can bring you down when you are in hat process of self improvement. So I decided to put together some of the negatives that others throw at your to bring your self esteem down and how to avoid them. You don’t want these things to get to you after you have worked hard on building self confidence for some time.
Try to stay calm
Staying calm and relaxed in today’s tough environment needs you to have complete control over your self esteem. This you can very easily do when you know the hurdles coming in your way. These factors not only pull your spirits down but also de-motivate from stepping ahead. But when a person is emotionally stable and under self control it gets easier to pass these speed-breakers smoothly.
Stay out of Negative Competition
Everyone is competing to get farther in life. Unfortunately, many people try to do it at the expense of others. Often times, you are completely on your own to survive at the workplace. Getting yourself in negative competitions will endanger not just your job but put your morale at great risk in this rough competition. Self reliance is the key to success here. Remember to always welcome healthy competition and stand fast for your survival.
Ge yourself a shield
Build a strong cover of self confidence around you and believe in yourself so people can not destroy your self esteem and your self improvement plan. There are haters everywhere who love to bring others down and make them feel bad for no good reason. Don’t pay attention to such people but at the same time, invite healthy criticism from true friends who have your interests at heart while pointing something negative about you. Make your cover a little flexible so you can choose what to let in and what to not pay attention to.
