Posts tagged Fence
How to Be Great at Finding Ways to Get What You Want in Life
Jan 21st
This is about creativity. It’s about our ability to innovate and what’s interesting is that most of us don’t think that we are creative, because maybe we didn’t do art at school or we weren’t good at music but here’s the news – all human beings are creative otherwise we wouldn’t have come out of the cave, we wouldn’t have invented fire, villages and towns, post-it notes and the best invention of all, the i-phone. We are innately creative.
There’s a few reasons why we struggle with this sometimes in our day to day life though and it’s because we get taught as we grow up with our with school, with our parents, with society, with our workplaces not to dream too highly for fear of disappointment. We get taught that knowing what’s wrong with stuff, being a critic, a cynic is a measure of how smart we are and perhaps more importantly of how smart other people will think we are. We get told there’s a right and a wrong answer. I was with a friend of mine’s four year old little girl Sarah the other week and she was colouring-in in her colouring book and she was getting to the fence, and I said “Sarah you’re going to do the fence now, what colour are you going to do the fence, you can colour it anything you want” and Sarah said “brown” and I said “no Sarah you can do the fence any colour at all, it could be blue with yellow dots or anything” and Sarah went “no fences are brown” and that’s what happens to us, right? We learn that there’s a right and a wrong answer. Well actually, if you think about innovation, if you think about solving your problems, if you always follow the right answer, the thing you’ve done before you don’t create a new way round. As the cliche goes ‘if you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got’. So what’s important to be able to figure out how to get what you want, is solid creativity.
One thing is more fundamental than anything else for driving creativity. It’s our ability to separate the generating of ideas from the judging of ideas. Forget whether you believe you are creative or not, just know that if you can separate the generating of ideas from the judging of ideas you will be able to invent things. Here’s how you do it. You think of a bunch of ideas, anything at all and you write them down (without caring if you could do it, if it’s stupid or genius) and then afterwards you judge them. You decide which ones are good and which ones are bad, you mark them out of 10. What you don’t do is have ideas and decide which are good at the same time. You don’t do what we do most of our lives, which is “oh I could do this but no that’ll never work because of this reason,” you don’t judge them because very rarely does a fully formed idea ever come out of our mouth. It’s the combination of lots of thoughts and lots of half formed ideas that allows us to see possibility and gets us to the big idea which really works for us.
Try it for yourself. Don’t judge which are good or bad. Just make a list of a loads of ideas, possible ways you could get something you want, build them up, mess with them, without caring if what you are saying is right or wrong… then when you feel like you’ve exhausted your creativity for now, mark each of the ideas out of 10 based on, ‘there is something about that idea that could work’. Don’t judge it based on “is it perfect and can you do it right now” ‘cos ideas usually need building, but judge it based on, “‘is there something in this idea”. See which ones come to the top, which ones you really like and then look for how you can build or take forward the best 1, 2 or 3 ideas… NO MORE… everything else you have come up with was just your way of getting to the best 3, your working out, like in maths. One thing people often get wrong is having lots of ideas, saving them all and building none of them. What makes this work is identifying the best of the best, throwing away the rest and developing the great ones.
So when you generate ideas, don’t care whether they are good or bad or stupid or indifferent, just think of as many things as you can. If you can do this with other people, all the better, the more brains in this process, the better your outcome. When times are hardest we can be great at this ‘cos we are forced in to it, ‘necessity is the mother of invention,’ but all that shows is we can invent, it’s a choice we can make any time we like.
I promise you, you’re a human being you can invent a way to get anything that you want!
Maximize Your Time Part 4
Sep 14th
The 24 hours we do have is the most precious of all resources. It is a resource most people don’t realize has tremendous value. We have not been taught how to value it and get the most out of it.
Depending on what your job is, your time at work has a certain dollar amount. I want you to start thinking of your time after work as having the same dollar value.
If you are making $30 an hour, then your time away from work is also worth $30 an hour. Doesn’t it make sense to hire people you can pay $10 an hour to create more time for you to do what you want to do?
Hiring other people to do things is not easy because we’ve been trained to do it all ourselves. It is interesting how we feel embarrassed to tell our parents that we pay someone to come in and clean our house or have our lawns mowed or our windows professionally cleaned. That’s because we grew up with parents who did it “all”. We also have a very strong need to have our parents’ approval. So, if we think they won’t approve of spending money on cleaning services, then we will hesitate to do it.
This is one of what I call “obsolete rules” that we still live by based on old ways of thinking which are not realistic in our present roles. Pay attention to see if your inner voice says you must be lazy or inadequate in some way because you can’t “do it all.”
Think about it from a logical point of view. If your time is worth $30 an hour then you hire someone at $10 an hour, it has cost you only $10 but you’ve gained a full hour of your time which I personally feel is “priceless”. Isn’t it worth $10 for you to have an extra hour with your family and friends? I know from experience it is!
Sometimes we need someone to give us permission to do things. I give you permission to hire someone else to:
1)Clean your house
2)Mow your lawn
3)Clean the windows
4)Paint the fence
5)Paint the house inside
Delegate, delegate, delegate!
?Wendy Collier, Angel Books

