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Eyes and Parts of Body – A Non-Verbal Communication
Oct 15th
It is established that body language is a form of non-verbal communication, which consists of body posture, gestures, facial expressions, and eye movements. The other parts of the body’s movements play equal and an important role in revealing a person’s behaviour. Humans send and interpret such signals subconsciously. The eyes on the face of a man are most important part of the human body. Its shape, colour and look, altogether from a conduit of information, will reflect the behavioral pattern of a person. Princess Cordelia says, “Eyes are the windows to a person’s soul.”
A person can draw definite conclusions if he understands the true concept of eye movement. The core concept and evaluation of eye movement are directly proportional to his or her capability of observation. The geographical locations and its associated cultural and ritual rites have an effect in evaluation of eye movements. Though it is essential to establish an eye contact with a person, yet movements of parts of the body reveal a lot of information too. Here, it is important to realise the tradition in Islamic countries or those nations which are under its influence. The younger people lower their gaze while talking to their elders. However, in twenty first century this tradition may be falling significantly. The authority of a person with a significant role in his life can be deceptive, even though the dialogues and eye movements are in co-ordination. It may give incorrect information to the observer. In such situations further probe will reveal the truth.
It is a fact that human beings’ eyes reveal truth or lies or other intentions of a person by its movement. However, these actions need more evidence to establish a definite conclusion. In addition, blink of an eye is an important measure in assessing a person’s behavioral pattern. It also proved that the observer arrives at a definite conclusion in a blink of an eye. The psychologist has a different version to substantiate:
Sigmund Freud says, “He that has eyes to see and ears to hear may convince himself that no mortal can keep a secret. If his lips are silent, he chatters with his fingertips; the betrayal oozes out of him at every pore”.
The synopsis of observation and evaluation of eye movements reveal its predominant role in reading the human mind. The hidden message coherently shows the character of a person. Although internal and external factors masked the eye movement, yet the facts are revealed to the observer by other body parts. It is interesting and informative to observe people in and around you to understand the non-verbal communication. It will help you to evaluate the facts and become good at reading body part movements. It is advantageous to read eye and other parts of body movements of near and dear one because of known background of the subject concern. In the end, every person will realise the gift of nature to human beings, in the forms of body parts and its effects.
Confidence Through Body Language To Boost Your Confidence
Oct 12th
What is the body language, and how it is connected to your attitude and confidence? As we know, that people communicate with each other. In our communication when we communicate just 7% words we use, the majority of communications are done with body language, vocal tones, speaking pitch, movement, and gestures. Body language means: pitch of voice, speed, walking, to have to eye contact, how fast you move, shoulders, chest…. Question arises, why body language is so important. Because we sub- communicate with others.
Lot of things is spoken by body language, including a person’s self-confidence. Lack of self-confidence can be apparent in many ways, one of which is through body posture.
The way one carries himself, it is body posture. It is a base for making first impressions, which generally dictate the image of a person in the eyes of another. Primary imitation can be very beneficial. In interviews, a person is generally evaluated through his gestures, body language and posture.
Usually, when tall person stands, he represents an image of self-confidence. To have a best posture is a quick and sure way of building an excellent impression.
Posture is an attentive effort to keep the body aligned against the body’s center of seriousness. Everyone can easily spot a person who has bad posture. A person with deprived posture is one who slouches, with shoulders drooping and head bowed down as if looking for a long-lost coin.
There may be so many reasons towards the meager posture. One cause of poor posture can already be considered as a social norm. Mature are flat to deterioration their postures by carrying heavy luggage and briefcases to work. People who spend time in front of computer, mostly they develop poor posture.
How we can fix our posture? We must remember that having a correct posture requires a conscious effort and dedication. Followings are some tips by which we can correct our poor posture.
- We must utilize a chair which fits the back perfectly whenever possible.
- The handles and straps of your bags, and backpacks should be padded and wide. It supports your shoulders and back.
- Try to sleep on your back or on your side; instead of sleeping on your stomach.
