Posts tagged Doubts
Pain – How to Look Past the Shadows on the Wall
Sep 25th
Pain is the primary driver for everything that we do (or don’t do).
It determines what we think about. What we believe is possible.
The problem with pain is that a lot of the time, it isn’t anything physical.
It’s a process that changes over time.
We stop twisting ankles, breaking bones, and getting bloody noses. Right?
We move from the playground to the battleground. From the swing-set to the headset.
Where we scar our minds instead of our knees…
It’s mental. Not muscle.
And while it looks like as a whole we are eliminating pain from our lives, nothing could be farther from the truth. We’re just better at hiding it from others.
We’re experts at appearing like “everything is alright”. In fact, we might be able to even hide it from ourselves if it weren’t for the shadows on the wall.
The problem with mental pain is that the scars run deep.
Betrayal. Loss. Abandonment.
The pain is gripping and intense. And it doesn’t go away for awhile.
It’s trauma in every imaginable sense of the word. So much so that we will do just about anything to avoid going through that experience again.
But just about the time you start to heal, just about the time the sting starts to go away, you see the shadows.
On the wall you see the scary outline of past pain. And you start to relive your fears and doubts.
Your breathe comes a little faster and your heart starts to beat a little quicker. All of your senses tell you that you are about to get hurt.
And that fear drives you to run. To stop being a high performer.
But there might be more to the situation if you look past the shadows. Maybe the shadows don’t tell the right story.
Maybe what you think is past fear and failure is really just a mechanical pencil wedged between a pizza box and the edge of the couch.
Maybe it’s nothing more than your brain playing tricks on you. Maybe the harder you look, the less you find to fear.
Maybe you look past the shadows and realize that:
Fear drives us to run while courage helps us to heal.
We all have pain. We all see the shadows.
It could be losing that big deal, working to get that next promotion, or fighting through past failures…
Just remember to look past the shadows.
Holosync Review – How Does Holosync Stack Up?
Sep 13th
This Holosync review will look briefly at Bill Harris’s product which he created to help people to learn how to meditate using scientifically proven audio technology.
If you’re interested in meditation, you probably know that it has many hidden benefits. You gain better health, better emotional stability, a more focussed mind and more spiritual awareness. Holosync is a product that can help you gain all this, and much faster than the traditional meditation methods. You may already know of self-hypnosis scripts and self-hypnosis DVD guides which are a “lazy” mans way of quick hypnosis or meditation; Holosync works in pretty much the same way.
It comes in with a much better track record though; it has been used successfully in more than 200 countries. Let’s start the Holosync review by looking at what people testify to after they use it.
Is it possible that more than 1 million people from all over the world are wrong?
It is possible, but maybe for just a while. After some time, someone will express doubts and others who have not had the promised experience with the product will follow suit. Brian Harris’s Holosync review has been in the market for more than 2 decades and continues to be used in many countries. That itself is testimony that there must be something in the product that helps people. Many other self-hypnosis products have come into the market and gone during this time.
The people who have used Holosync claim that it helped them make strides in meditation that had evaded them for years. Instead of having to practice for hours every day to get into meditative state, they learnt how to do it with juts a few minutes a day in a few months.
A deeper analysis
Let’s use this Holosync review to explain how and why Holosync works. How is it possible to be able to learn how to get into a deep meditative state in such a short time? The answer is that the technology behind it uses audio stimulation which works to effortlessly place you within the brain wave pattern that occurs during deep meditation.
To make it even easier to understand, think of it as an exercise machine that targets an exact muscle that you want to grow. The muscle is your brain and the machine is Holosync. The machine, every time you get on it, will quickly work this muscle into a state where it’s getting stronger and stronger without much effort on your part. Holosync works in exactly the same way with your brain.
We all know that the brain can be exercised and altered – that’s what we try to do with personal development; we try to change the brains old way of thinking and reacting so that we can acquire new thoughts and reactions that help to serve us better. It’s the same thing that happens when the brain is exposed to information – it learns. Holosync will repeatedly teach your brain how to get into a deep meditative state in just a few minutes so that after a short while, it is conditioned to do so without much effort.
Buyer Beware
This Holosync review would be incomplete if we didn’t say what we think about the product and its effects in general. Beware of products, especially those that are meant to improve you, that come with a “things done for you” clause as the selling point.
Personal development is an exercise that requires effort and work on your part. It is also a much more whole rounded exercise than just learning how to meditate. Meditation is the pillar of personal growth and self development, but there needs to be a lot more happening for you to achieve all rounded growth. You need to develop discipline and willpower. What Holosync does is bypass that process.
If you are going to use it, make sure to back it up with all the other elements of personal growth. It will otherwise be meditation for meditations sake. If you can develop the willpower to meditate without aids, you have achieved a much bigger milestone in terms of self discipline. If you can, find a medium that helps you to achieve meditation but that forces you to incorporate all the other aspects that you need for a much better life.
Lastly, I want to mention in this Holosync review about the bonuses that you get on buying it for $199. You get a free 4-lesson online course: Master Your Emotions, Your Actions, and Your Life as well as additional free coaching. This is definitely something worth taking advantage of.
In my opinion, if you’re serious about learning the skill of meditation, Holosync is a great way to get you started and achieves meditation quickly. Don’t ignore your natural ability to develop meditation skills though. The gift is within you; you can use props once in a while, but don’t ignore your natural muscle.
