Posts tagged Bad Situation
Live Happier With the Right Attitude
Sep 8th
Yes, the way you look at things, have a tremendous impact in your daily life.
You must put this in your mind. Sometimes there is no way we can change any situation, even if we try. And that is where our sense of judgment comes out.
Take this as an example; If one morning you look out the window and see these black clouds, threatening to bring a heavy rain, and you were expecting the most beautiful day with the brightest sun ever, because you had this super plans, then my friend, you better put in practice your sense of humor.
Humor, my friend, is an ingredient you should practice and live by.
Be grateful, my friend, because it could have been worst.
Sometimes, it is even good to give thanks to what caused to stop you from doing your plans, for one solely reason, and that is that you and me will never know what would have happened, if we had done our primary plans.
So just think about that, seriously.
Unless you have the power to change any given situation, change it, but if it is not in you, then look for the best options to your problem.
Believe me, you can always turn a bad situation into a good one, if you have the patience, the willingness and put the necessary effort in it.
There are of course, I admit it, times where like in this past example, of the rain, that physically no one will be able to stop the rain. But it will go away sooner or later, and that is where you should focus on.
As a networker or anyone else, you should be prepared to face any challenges that will arise from any activity you perform.
Remember also that, whatever attitude you take, you will be judged by that. And again, as a business owner, supervisor or someone in charge of a department, your attitude will define the outcome of any project you handle or take care off.
Always try to get the best from any situation in life.
Never expect perfection, we are humans, we live in a changing world, we are surrounded by so many things that are impossible to have control upon, and yet this makes life beautiful.
See, what I just told you in this last paragraph is attitude, attitude.
We have to be flexible, there is no way we can survive having a fixed mind.
That is why we have roads with curves, when we can’t keep going in a straight line, we go around the obstacle, but always focusing on the finish line.
Think and relax, count to ten and then act. This is attitude at its best.
Do you really want to save a fortune in medicines, hospitals and in so many things more? Then guess what, change your attitude and you will make yourself a big favor, for good.
Please make the best of your life, and whenever possible, look for a true friend and share your feelings, and relieve that energy inside of you.
Who am I to think that I am the best, that I deserve the best, that I should be treated the best. That is just a selfish attitude. So change it.
As always, have a good and unforgettable day,
Blessings,
Jose Joe Lasa
Strategies to Eliminate Negativity From Your Life
Sep 6th
It is a new month and that means we have another 31 days to come closer to our dreams and goals that we have.
Last time we spoke quite a bit on “limiting Beliefs”. Let us continue in that direction. Once you recognize a limiting belief then you can do something about it and take positive action. Start with the exercise of ELIMINATING NEGATIVE THINKING FROM YOUR LIFE FOR THE NEXT 30DAYS. Let us make August the month for eliminating negativity from our lives. Whenever a limiting belief enters your mind “turn it around.” For example you may have random thoughts that you are never going to accomplish your Goal that you have set and you begin to feel really low and carry a negative vibe; instantly turn that feeling around and really feel that you have accomplished it by using the tool I gave you a few days ago – VISUALIZATION WITH EMOTION. “Visualize that you have achieved that goal already” and it will act as an instant PICK ME UP.
The next thing we can do is to have a DREAM BOOK. This is a book only for you where you put down all your dreams; big and small. Then write down what is stopping you from achieving that dream and get it out of the way by eliminating excuses and stop blaming other people for your failures and frustrations. Take responsibility and move ahead.
Here are a few things you can do to eliminate “limiting beliefs.”
1. Positive affirmations – for example – I love myself and I deserve to lose weight and look and feel fabulous.
2. Choose to look for the bright side of every situation even when things are not going your way. I have done this so many times and initially it was challenging and almost seems like you are mocking yourself because you are going through a bad patch but you have to push through that “reality” and see the good part of that bad situation. Everything has two sides to it.
3. This next one is in my book the most important strategy for me and works every time. It is “prayer and meditation.” Talk to God and he will answer you back through signs in your daily life. Meditation is how you can connect with God and it also will ease your soul and mind.
4. Focus on what you want. In spite of everything that goes on in your life never lose focus of what is important to you. Nobody has a perfect life but the difference between the successful and the failures is FOCUS AND DETERMINATION.
5. Keep a Dream book. Please refer to the paragraph above.
Stay strong and beautiful!
