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Mind Control Methods – 3 Simple Techniques To Get What You Want
Nov 10th
There are many mind control methods out there that you can use for your own personal gain and advancement. However, most of them are a little too tricky or even creepy for any regular person to attempt. I know this because I’ve looked; and well, I don’t always like what I see.
What we need are mind control techniques that are safe and simple to use. Read on to learn more.
Mind Control Method # 1: Keep Them Comfortable.
The first thing you must remember is to keep the person you’re talking to at ease. Don’t jump right into what you plan for him to do. Start with stating simple facts like “You’re sitting there right in front of me comfortable and at ease.”
It may be a plain observation, but it is in alignment with what the person knows and believes. Continue feeding him facts like this for a short while, until you feel that he is well and truly put in an agreeing mood. This technique will then prepare him for what is to come.
Mind Control Method # 2: Use The Word “Because.”
How often do we use the word “because” in a real sentence? In my opinion, we don’t use it often enough. Sure, we use it when writing letters, but do you have any idea how powerful this word is when used verbally in actual sentence?
When you’re trying to reason out the need for a second chance to your boss, for example, you don’t say “I deserve a second chance for all my hard work.” Instead, you say, “I deserve a second chance because I worked really hard on this project.”
That word alone gives you an air of maturity and credibility that will always work to your advantage.
Mind Control Method # 3: Use Tag Questions.
I hope you still remember your grammar lessons, because one particular topic is actually one of the simplest yet most effective mind control techniques out there – tag questions.
Tag questions are questions that end with another mini question. Examples include: You’re not going to let these poor children starve, are you? They will return for us, won’t they?
See what I mean? When trying to get someone to do what you want, make sure to phrase your requests in the form of tag questions because it puts them in just the right position to say “yes.”
Mind control methods are only as effective as the person using them. Don’t expect these techniques to work perfectly, especially if you don’t have a lot of self-confidence. Practice them as much as you can and you’ll see yourself improving every step of the way.
5 Ways to Keep a Positive Self Esteem
Oct 1st
Do you have low self-esteem? If you do you’re missing an important ingredient needed in the recipe to living a healthy life! Having low self-esteem makes it harder to reach your full potential. How? It’s because of the power of your thoughts.
You remember the Little Engine that Could? And do you remember what he said? “I think I can, I think I can.” And guess what, he did! Unfortunately, many of us don’t feel that way about ourselves. Instead of thinking we can, we think we cannot. Whenever we have a goal that seems almost impossible to reach we let the negative mentality take over.
Let’s be honest, all of us have negative feelings occasionally. But we can’t let them take over; in the end we must have positive thoughts to succeed.
The Ingredients of a Positive Self-Esteem Guide
Attaining self-esteem seems hard but it’s not. All you have to do is make a few small changes. Creating a healthy self-esteem does not have to be difficult. Small changes can be quite beneficial too.
Utilize these tips to help you build-up your self-esteem:
1. Don’t listen to negativity.
Many people just have a pattern of putting other people down. We tell ourselves not to listen to them, but of course in the end, we do. This negativity is hurtful from anyone but especially from the people you love. Sometimes people will try to lead you down the wrong path because they think they know what’s best for you. At the end of the day, only you know. You can’t let anyone deter you.
2. Embrace compliments from others.
When people give you compliments don’t think they’re lying because of an ulterior motive. More than likely the person giving the compliment is being sincere. There aren’t many people that?give false compliments. People will not go out of their way to lie to you in an attempt to be nice. If you can learn how to accept compliments, you may learn things about yourself that are quite positive. This will help you build your self-confidence.
3. Find a life coach.
Their sole purpose is to help you get the most out of life. Many people have been helped by them so don’t be embarrassed. After all, their careers are built on helping others. If a coach just isn’t an option for you, there are several, self-help guides you can purchase through your local bookstore or online.
4. Use affirmations.
These can really help boost your self-esteem. They allow you to focus on what you can achieve. These statements can be used to bring some positivism at any moment. You can choose your own affirmations. That way your true feelings are expressed
5. Do not compare yourself to others.
When looking at others it is hard not to compare yourself to them. You just have to keep in mind that everyone is different. We each have are own set of weaknesses and strengths. Try to focus on adding to your own strengths.
