Posts tagged Aspirations
Change Your Life In Seven Days – Find Your Self Confidence
Oct 15th
Have you ever wondered if someone who appears to be totally confident on the outside, is really as insecure as you are? Most people lack confidence. The ones that are in your face confident are usually relying on their Pretend self. Pretend Self is one of three selves that we carry around.
First of all there is the Pretend self. This identity will fake it until you make it to manage life obstacles. Then, there is the Negative self. This identity focuses on all your negative habits and projects a detrimental image of the self. Lastly, there is the Authentic self. The Authentic self is the tender person you truly are at the core.
Because folks fear not fitting in, many people hide behind the Pretend self. It hurts to be judged by others. If you fit in, you won’t be judged. It takes a lot of energy to live the Pretend self and over time, you forget how to be an Authentic person.
When someone criticizes you, it is the Negative self that will latch onto those words. This self starts a running loop of negativity that constantly plays in the background. Particular triggers will activate the Negative Self. If someone calls you a name, you become upset. Your Negative self believes that you represent that remark. “Any negative traits you identify are not really yours – they belong to your negative self-image, and were programmed into to you when you were a child. By identifying them honestly, you can let them go,” states Paul McKenna in Change Your Life in Seven Days.
On the other hand, Authentic self is your core person (minus the negative and fake parts). This is the self that has dreams and aspirations, the one that feels it’s heart swell with so much love when people you cherish are nearby. This self is powerful and unstoppable when allowed to dominate your actions. It is easy to attain once you recognize the negative and false dialogues running through your head.
Happiness – A Divine Gift
Sep 5th
Objective of all the activities performed by the human beings in this planet is to acquire happiness. State of happiness cannot be attained with the help of power and pelf. Real happiness arises from the core of the heart. Money has no capacity to bring out real happiness and joy. If money had the capacity to bring out happiness then all the rich men would have been happy. In fact, they are farther from real happiness.
Happiness can be traced in the trivial things and actions. For acquiring it, we need not throw a grand party or to become a part of any party. It can be attained within the fences of our very home. The best kind of happiness can be found within our soul, which cannot be contrasted with any other kind of happiness. With this kind of eternal happiness all other things prove futile. People are rushing and resorting to various kinds of activities in the quest for happiness. They are spending a lot of money and time but are unable to make it their companion. Happiness cannot be purchased but it can be acquired free of cost.
Happiness is a state of mind. It is our mind which can make a hell a heaven and heaven a hell. In the realm of rat-race and cut-throat competition people have been loosing their happiness. They find themselves deprived from this basic divine gift. The source of their delight lies in diminishing their super ambitions and aspirations. People must be really candid and honest in relinquishing their super aspirations otherwise, they will be in a state of mirage that they have attained the stage of happiness which can be more fatal.
