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    It's August. It's hot. Many of us are getting ready to go or are already on vacation. It is that time of year. We "check out" for at least a few days, maybe a week, or if you're a European, a whole month. That is as it should be. Time for rejuvenation, relaxation and the big "R"--REST--is essential if we are to maintain some semblance of balance in this wired, weary world. But, as I recently learned the hard way,...
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  • Stop Watching The News!

    Do today's news stories make you feel sick?, Like, physically ill? It definitely makes me ill if I watch it too much, so I decided to do something about it - I stopped watching all American news. The minute you turn on any American news, even stalwarts like CNN or MSNBC, it's nothing but scare tactics or fluff stories - there really isn't any actual news on these stations anymore. Being bombarded with stories like...
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  • College Grants for Single Moms

    Barrack Obama, our newly elected President has a lot of work to make being the leader of our country from the time of the on-going economic crisis but he's driven to let each space of our country improve as soon as possible. This consist of health care and human rights activism, but our President stresses on one thing and that is  encouraging mothers to attempt higher education by his Moms Return to School'...
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  • The Absolute Beginner’s Guide To Starting A Small Online Business

    The Absolute Beginner’s Guide To Starting A Small Online Business

    Take action to create the work you want. If your goal is to start a small online business that replaces and exceeds your current income this may be the most important article you read this year. Brash, huh? Here's the deal: I've been working online full time for almost 10 years, since age 19. I've had a lot of failures and a lot of successes. There is no better way to learn how to succeed...
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  • Know How To Triumph Over Your Fear

    Fear is one of the most negative things. It holds you back from achieving your goals and can even cast a detrimental effect on your life. It is for this reason that you have to make conscious attempts to battle your fear. Here are some straightforward tips that will assist you with the same. Any attempts to overcome one's fear can only be effective if he is mindful of which are his actual fears. If ...
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    The No. 1 Habit of Highly Creative People

    “In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for contructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.” ~Rollo May Post written by Leo Babauta. Follow me on twitter or identica. Creativity is a nebulous, murky topic that fascinates me endlessly — how does it work? What habits to creative people do that makes them so successful at creativity? I’ve reflected on my own creativ...
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    Slow Down and Enjoy Relationships

    I keep my time saved in a box From going fast in cars I’ve piled it up high From saying hello to friends with a quick goodbye ~Kathryn Williams, Flicker Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Corey Allan of Simple Marriage. The world is seemingly moving at a faster pace. Everywhere you turn, the pace is quick. Deadlines are moved up, workload is increased, kid’s schedules are packed, to-do lists are ...
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Immerse Yourself and Go With the Flow to Leave Your Worries Behind

Sep 2nd

Posted by Charles in be positive

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Artists go there, so do athletes of all types. You have probably been there a few times too. It’s what many people call the “zone”. When Tiger Woods play golf, he does not think about the crowds, the opponents and the money at stake, he focuses exclusively on each shot. Flow is a state of total concentration in which you are so intent on what you are doing that you are oblivious to what is going on around you. When you are involved in an activity that produces the flow experience, your worries leave you. Time flies and you lose all awareness of yourself as your body in mind work in harmony.

You may not feel particularly happy during the experience itself, especially if it is an arduous one, such as running or swimming. However, once you have finished you feel a great sense of satisfaction, self-esteem and confidence. Research has also shown that people who report experiencing flow on a regular basis feel that their lives are meaningful. We often experience flow when engaged in sports and creative pursuits, such as painting, crafts and music. However, flow is created by how you go about an activity and so can be found anywhere.

Indeed, you will feel happier if you are able to create flow in a wide variety of pursuits. If you rely exclusively on one activity, such as your job, for your flow experiences, there is a danger that you will become obsessed with that activity and neglect other important areas of your life.

Although the ability to enter the flow lies within you, you cannot force yourself into this state of mind. Rather like attempting to get to sleep, the harder you try, the harder it becomes. However, you can create the conditions to make flow more likely to occur. For example, slow down your thoughts in readiness for the task you are about to undertake, perhaps by meditating or taking deep slow breaths. Embarking on an activity in an agitated mood makes it very hard to immerse yourself in the task at hand.

Choose an activity that presents a realistic challenge to your abilities and allows you to aim for clearly defined goals. If you are faced with too great a challenge, you will feel anxious and demoralised; not enough of a challenge and you will be bored. As you improve in the task, raise your expectations, so that you are always aiming for a goal just above your current skill level. Flow is also likely if you do something that provides immediate feedback. For example, every time they move to a new hand or foot- or foothold, experienced rock climbers can tell immediately if they are making the right moves.

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How to Be More Happy, the Easy Way

Sep 2nd

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Want to know how to make yourself more happy and do it the easy way. Read this, read it all and read it carefully, doing this will make you happier.

If you want to feel happy and make it long lasting it’s simple! Give something to someone else. Buy a present, take them out for a meal and you pay, or make a donation to charity. Doing this will not only make you feel good inside, but it will also make your happiness last. In contrast, buy yourself a present or a treat, and you will feel good, but the positive feeling will not last anywhere near as long as if you have given something to someone else.

People feel emotions according to their facial expressions. So if you want to be happy, make sure your eyes are wide open and put a big smile on your face. You will find that when you change your expression you will continue to feel happy even after you start to frown. It’s important to be aware though that this also works the other way too, and having a smile will not instantly change your state, but give it a little time and you will start to feel better and happy inside.

You will also derive a great deal of pleasure and hot new things that have been forced upon you, but things that you have chosen to do and had to make an effort at, and the more effort the more pleasure and happiness you will get from it.

Go on try these simple things and see how much better you feel.

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